The
first generation of Muslims, the pious Salaf, were
undoubtedly the best of generations. Their character and
way of life stand witness to this fact and is further
confirmed by the statement of Allaah’s Messenger,
sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam,:
“The best of generations are my generation, then those
which follow them, then those which follow them.”
[Muslim]
They
were indeed, the best amongst those who implemented the
teachings of our beloved Prophet Muhammad, sallallaahu 'alayhi
wa sallam. So
naturally it is their example that one must follow in
all matters and Ramadhaan is no exception. The Salaf were
frugal with their own iftar meals but generous hosts
towards others.
‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar, for example, would prefer to eat
his iftar meal with the poor. Whenever he broke his fast
at home, he never ate his fill, so that if a needy
person visited, ‘Abdullah could give him his iftar meal.
Thus he would end up virtually “fasting” that whole
night too! He used to give away sweets in charity
saying, ‘I am aware of Allaah’s saying (what means):
“You shall not attain piety until
you spend out of that which is beloved to you” [Quran 2: 92] and
Allaah knows that I love sweets.’
Once
when Imam Ahmad had prepared some bread for iftar, a
needy person called on him. Without hesitating he gave
away all his bread, and went hungry. Ibn Al-Mubaarak used
to prepare sweets for his brothers, despite the fact
that he was fasting.
Imam
Ash-Shafi’ee, once said, “It is beloved to me to see one
increasing his acts of generosity during the month of
Ramadhaan, following the example of Allaah’s Messenger, and
for one’s own good. There are many who become
over-occupied with fasting and Prayers, forgetting the
other benefits of the month of Ramadhaan [i.e. forgetting
about the benefits and rewards for being generous
towards others].”
The
Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam,, said, “The best of
deeds is that of keeping your believing brother happy,
or that of paying off a debt of his, or that of feeding
him.” [Ad-daylami]
“The most beloved of people to
Allaah are those who are of most benefit [to others]. The
most of beloved actions to Allaah is when you make
another Muslim happy, removing a hardship that has
befallen him, paying off a debt of his or rid him of
hunger. It is more beloved to me indeed that I walk with
my Muslim brother to see to a need of his than
performing i’tikaf (secluding oneself) in a Masjid for a
month” [At-Tabaranee]
“The likeness [i.e. in terms of
rewards] of the one who comes to [the aid of] a widow
and [the aid of] a destitute is like that of a mujahid
(striver) in the cause of Allaah or that of someone who
spends the night in prayers and the day in fasting.”
(Al-Mishkaat)