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Her son believes his wife’s false claims against her

Question

Assalaamu Alikkum i have three sons and all married , my 3rd son is settled well but he had misunderstanding with his wife . he was tolerating her for 15 years and still she did not become good. but atlast he got married to other girl . now he is very happy and enjoying his life/// later his first wife said that because of me only she was like that and she did not give the respect to the husband///now my son became very angry on me///but im not that type of lady i use to take care of house and i have saved so much of money and did jewels for my grand sons and grand daughters//but still he is very angry on me/// now he is making me separate from his first wife/// and keeping me separately/// im really hearted/////his first wife said that she will not allow his second wife to live and even she wont live with him she challenged/// and whenever my son comes in front of him she acts very smart as though she does not know anything/// at back of him she is doing black magic and spending money on black magics and use to say that she will take his children and go away and he has to suffer without children///she is planning a lot//but my son is not believing any thing/// he believes only his first wife what to do please help me i want to save my son from his first wife/// his second wife very lovable and affectionable and she loves whole family members also and even whole family members lover her very much/// but still my son believes only his first wife but she plans a lot and she eats his money but my son gives 15000 for her (first wife)family . he fulfills all the needs but still first wife is doing nafrath on me and on my son/// please help me what to do.

Answer

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, is His slave and Messenger.

If your daughter in-law wrongly accuses you of spoiling her relationship with her husband [your son], then she is wrong, and it is not permissible in any case for your son to mistreat you because if he does so, he severs ties of kinship with you. We advise you to clarify to him and to his wife that you are not guilty of what you are being accused of.

However, you are not permitted to accuse your daughter in-law of doing magic or plotting against your son except with evidence. If you fear that your son would act according to the effect of magic and the like, then you should earnestly supplicate Allaah to cure him and rectify his affairs. You may seek the help of some people who can influence him and convince him to perform Ruqyah or to ask someone to perform Ruqyah on him.

For more benefit, please refer to Fataawa 82918 and 84806.

Allaah Knows best.

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