She watches porn to satisfy her husband

29-1-2014 | IslamWeb

Question:

Asalam.mualaikum I watch roud things on internet.bcus i .can not make.husnand. Happy when he wants to mke love .and i.have low sex drive too.and he wants it everyday too ,i seek forgiveness .but still watch wrong things, sometime works and sometimes doesnt he makes me feel guilty too when i refuse.i fear he will leave and since so many broken marriges in my family i dont want my marrige to fail.i am a practicing muslim .i dnt.no what else to do
Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) is His Slave and Messenger.

Watching pornography is an evil matter. We have previously clarified that watching it in order to stimulate intimacy between the spouses does not justify it at all; so please refer to Fataawa 89335 and 83422.

Therefore, you are obliged to make sincere repentance. It is not befitting for a righteous Muslim woman to see such scenes; rather, her religion and her modesty should keep her away from such an ugly action that is detested by every person who has a sound Fitrah (natural predisposition upon which Allaah created mankind), and rejected by any person who seeks the pleasure of his Lord and hopes to enter Paradise and be saved from Hellfire.

If your husband invites you to bed, you are obliged to obey him unless you have a legitimate excuse; please refer to Fatwa 84944.

If the wife does not have a strong sex drive, then this is not a legitimate reason that permits her to refrain from accepting the request of her husband to bed. In addition to this, this desire may be found afterwards through foreplay and the like, as we have previously clarified in Fataawa 83574 and 87911.

Finally, you should know that obeying your Lord and doing what pleases Him could be the best reason for making your husband pleased with you. Also, disobedience could be a cause for misfortunes, among which is the failure of marriage. Allaah says (what means): {And whatever strikes you of disaster — it is for what your hands have earned; but He pardons much.} [Quran 42:30]

Ibn 'Umar may Allaah be pleased with him narrated that the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: "I swear by the One in whose hand the soul of Muhammad is, there are no two persons who love each other and then they are separated except that this is because of a sin that one of them has committed.” [Ahmad and others] It was also reported that Al-Fudhayl ibn ‘Iyaadh may Allaah have mercy upon him said: “I disobey Allaah then I see the consequences of that in the conduct of my riding mount and my wife.”

Allaah Knows best.

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