Awakening sleeping person for prayer

3-1-2018 | IslamWeb

Question:

I have a grandmother who is very old and is scared all the time. She always has to have someone in the room, and it has gotten to the point where she will not sleep at night and will not let the person who stays with her (my mom) sleep either. She cries, whimpers, constantly calls out in fear, and gives constant little tasks. Now my mother has forbidden me from awakening my grandmother for the Fajr because once she wakes up, she will neither go back to sleep again nor let my mother (who works during the day) do so. I have offered to stay with my grandmother as well sometimes during that time, but my mom still insists to not awaken her. My question is whether is it permissible, given the circumstances, to let my grandmother sleep through the Fajr prayer.

Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allah, the Lord of the worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allah and that Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) is His slave and Messenger.

The scholars differed in opinion concerning the ruling on awakening the sleeper and alerting him for the prayer. Some of them held that this is recommended, while others held that it is obligatory. In any case, we advise you to awaken your grandmother for the prayer and remind her of Allah and the fact that she should have good expectations of Him. You should try your best to instill the meanings of faith that would help her get rid of her fear in her and be kind to her.

Since you suggested to your mother that you sleep with your grandmother at that time, then if you were to wake her up, it would not harm your mother. Hence, we advise you to wake her up and give her advice and remind her of Allah, as we mentioned above.

Nevertheless, if you do not wake her up, you bear no sin according to the view of many scholars.

An-Nawawi  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him said, "It is recommended to wake up a sleeping person for the prayer, especially if its time is short (i.e. its time will expire soon), as Allah says (what means): {And cooperate in righteousness and piety.} [Quran 5:2]"

Also, ‘Aa’ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, reported that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) used to offer prayer at night while she laid in front of him, and when the Witr prayer was yet to be observed, he would waker her up to pray the Witr.

Another narration by Muslim reads that when the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) prayed the Witr, he would say to her, "O ‘Aa’ishah, get up and pray the Witr."

Moreover, Abu Bakrah, may Allah be pleased with him, narrated, "I went out with the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) to pray the Fajr prayer. Whenever he passed by a sleeping man, he would call him for prayer or nudge him with his foot." [Abu Daawood narrated it with a weak chain of narrators, but he did not consider it as weak.]

Allah knows best.

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