Unable to enjoy orgasm with husband
Fatwa No: 87197


I have been married for 8 years. Sexual relations with my husband are not so good as I never had my orgasm with him. This leaves me in a very bad mood, so I use my imagination to get my orgasm without using my hands. Tell me what to do because I love my husband, but I am afraid that I am doing something wrong. We even tried allot to improve our relationship. Please tell me what to do?


Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions.


Imagination is of two types:

The first is to imagine that it is your husband who is having sexual intercourse with you; there is no harm about it.  But it is preferable not to imagine so, and improve your relationship with him; that will make him try to fulfill your need.  The second type is to imagine somebody else other than your husband, then this is forbidden according to the opinion of the majority of scholars…

Allah knows best.

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