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  • Wants to take a second wife to avoid illicit relations

    I am a married man with a stable family and four children. I have been married for almost 20 years. Ever since I got married I have been involved in forbidden relations with other women. During intercourse with my wife, many times I feel I am with my wife and another woman as well because this enables me to get more aroused. I also share this.. More

  • Wife claims that her bridal money was just a gift not a dowry

    What is the status of a Mahr (dowry) given by a groom to a bride when years later the bride, when asked, says she thought that was a gift and not Mahr? .. More

  • Talking about other women to arouse her husband sexually

    I am married to a Muslim and have children. My main problem is that my husband is really unable to perform sexually unless we talk about other women or describe some sexual scenes while talking. I always feel very guilty doing this and have done Tawbah many times. I have tried many times to avoid this but I always go back after a while because I feel.. More

  • Married but living separately apart

    I have been married to a Muslim man for the past fifteen years. He pre-fers to live without me in a separate house. He says that he loves me, yet he thinks that it is better that each one of us lives separately. Sometimes I feel that he feels ashamed for being attached to me or that he fears to pre-sent me to his children. What is your advice? .. More

  • Husband and wife's looking at each other's private parts

    I am a new reader of your site. I read almost all your "Fatwas", and I am confused due to your "Fatwas", since you had given Fatwa for query, i.e. Fatwa 82419. Related to see the private parts of a married couple. You had stated that "Prophet did not do it. As Aa'ishah said: "But in the Fatwa" 83392. You had stated this, i.e. copy of what.. More

  • The balance between the rights of wife and the right of relatives

    My husband has had trouble for years now balancing his duties to me, his wife, and to his mother (a widow) and his younger brothers, who are old enough to take care of themselves. He has always put me on hold, my rights have always been violated, he has ultimate devotion in taking care of them, but doesn't realize how neglecting me is hurting.. More

  • Recently married and at pain to return to his wife

    I got married before 9 months, as part of job I did not see her from past 5 months. I decided to quit the job and go to stay with my wife back home. But my company's managers not allowing me to go, they playing with me, I can't go and complaints in the labor dept. because they have too much power in the ministry. May be they will send me behind.. More

  • Imagining having sex with his wife while he is away from her

    As I got married before 9 month, first three months I spend with wife and from past five months I am away from my wife due to job (I am working in Dubai and wife back in India). As time is passing I need her due to this sometime while going to bed I use to think in mind the time which we spend together (I mean the sex). It gives me some kind of.. More

  • Confused about suckling wife's breasts

    I am having some confusion related to your Fataawa, i.e. "Fatwa: 84646and 83713". In 84646you told that "a husband can enjoy his wife as he wishes provided he avoids having intercourse during menses or in her anus. So, you may suck your wives breasts. If the milk flows and you drink, this does not affect the marital relations. Only the.. More

  • Having sex in accordance with the natural disposition

    It is lawful (permissible) to lick wife's anus as foreplay, and she to lick her husband's? And as foreplay can she put her finger into the anus and can the husband do it to her anus, just as foreplay, before having sex? In many Fataawa is only mentioned "entire body"! Please explained detailed. .. More

  • An unspecified set of gold as Mahr

    There is a certain instance whereby a Muslim man married a Muslim woman and the dowry was supposed to be a set of gold (i.e. earrings, bangles and necklace). These couple are now divorced before the dowry was given to the woman. As the value of the set of gold was not specified, there is now a dispute on what is to be paid to the woman. (There.. More

  • Penetrated his wife's anus by mistake

    My question is that in the first night of wedding, when I was copulating with my wife I enter my male sex in the back (stool place) by mistake. Only the head (QADEEB). My wife warned me for my mistake. This whole thing happened in few seconds. Now what I have to do? Please answer me in simple language and may Allaah forgive me for what I have.. More

  • Husband insists in having intercourse during her menses

    My question is about sex during menses. I sometimes during menses have to fight my husband off of me because he will try to have sex with me. He has been successful 9 out of ten times. He has married in order to have another wife to go to but this still occurs during menses. I am at a lost what to do I advise him but still it doesn't stop. .. More

  • Rights of spouses

    I would like to ask about a woman serving her husband. If she accepts the opinion that it is not obligatory as some scholars have said (especially in the case where the woman works and the husband is unemployed), then what about the case when her husband orders her iron his clothes for example. Does this suddenly become obligatory because the.. More

  • Conditions for a husband to have sex with his wife

    Can a husband who is not taking good care of his wife compulsorily have sex with the wife despite the fact that the wife is not happy with him and not in sexual mood? .. More