Is it permissible to put water and seeds beside the grave?
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Putting water and seeds on a grave contradicts the Sunnah. Moreover, the claim that water cools down a dead person or has any other effect is wrong, because only good deeds, the supplication of a righteous son or a deed whose reward was offered to the dead person can cool them down.
Once Abdullaah Ibn ‘Umar saw a shelter over a grave and he ordered it to be removed, stating that it is a person's good deeds that shelter him. [Al-Bukhaari]Allaah Knows best.
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