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101 fatwas

  • Cannot Be a Good Obedient Wife Date: 5-8-2018

    Assalaam alaykum, I have an issue with obedience. I am a married woman, and I have noticed that I'm finding it difficult to be a good obedient wife. I find that when I argue with my husband I may walk away from him due to anger and annoyance and he will call me and tell me to come back which, due to my state of anger I don't return to him and ignore.. More

  • Husband must follow steps to discipline wife in order Date: 3-1-2018

    Salam. There are three steps in dealing with a disobedient wife. Is it obligatory to follow the steps in order, or can one resort to the second step directly if the situation calls for it? .. More

  • Wife refuses to live in husband's city Date: 3-1-2018

    Dear Sir, I have been married for the last four years and have no Kids. My wife is from a big city, and she has always wanted to settle in her home city, but I was not ready for that. In the third year of marriage, she managed to take me to her home-parental city to settle there. Then, however, she started to avoid me and spend times with her friends.. More

  • Wife boycotts in-laws and refuses intimacy with husband Date: 19-11-2017

    Assalaamu alaykum. I need to ask a question; maybe you have heard of this problem before. My wife and I are not in a stable relationship. I constantly ask Allah to help, but our problems have gotten severe at times. One minute we are happy, but the next we fight and hate each other. This is due to my wife hating my family, and it has been three years.. More

  • His wife wants to leave him for another man Date: 14-11-2017

    My wife wants to leave me for another man. We have two kids. I gave her the chance to end this, but she failed to do so. Shall I divorce her, or shall I go to that man and try to convince him not to poison our family life? I think that would be a long shot, but at least I would be satisfied. I have tried everything before reaching a final decision... More

  • Recalcitrant wife loses right to accommodation Date: 13-9-2017

    Salam. I read in some fatwas that a disobedient wife loses her marital rights and that her husband will not be sinful if he withholds her maintenance and accomodation. Withholding maintenance is an easy matter, relatively speaking, but how is one to withhold a disobedient wife's accomodation? Should the husband send her to her father's home? Or can.. More

  • Dealing with disobedient revert wife Date: 27-7-2017

    Assalaamu alaykum. I need help with the following issue: my wife and I met before she became Muslim, while I embraced Islam a week before I met her. I told her that I would not marry her as a non-Muslim, so she embraced Islam and attended the masjid every week in order to learn from the imam and it is about 40 km from her place to the masjid. The problem.. More

  • Disciplining wife who cheated on husband Date: 27-7-2017

    Assalaamu alaykum. How are you? I do not know if this is the correct way to contact you. My name is Riaz and I live in Mozambique. My English is not so good. I have been married for seven years, and we have two kids. My wife was cheating on me; when I caught her, she denied it, but then I started investigating and found so many proofs that she accepted.. More

  • Wife does not satisfy husband in bed Date: 12-6-2017

    I have been maried for 14 years. My wife cannot satisfy me in the bed. Everything I want is ok in Islam, like normal sex and oral sex. She does not like oral sex. She does not want to pleasure me while she has her period. She does not want to be naked with me alone in the bedroom. She does not like to spoon in bed. She comes with excuses. She does not.. More

  • Suspects dissolute wife touched by magic Date: 10-4-2017

    Assalaamu alaykum. I have been married for 16 years and have two sons aged seven and thirteen. I discovered that my wife was having an affair with a non-Muslim and that they also had physical relations. She also does not get along with my parents so we are not staying with them. Sometimes, certain unexplained things have happened in our house and she.. More

  • Handling disobedient wife Date: 21-11-2016

    Assalaamu alaykum. Ever since we got married ten years ago, my wife has always been fighting with me because she never listens nor obeys me. She always argues and she is wrongmost of the time. She has three kids, but she became even crazier after that, and she cannot stand them and always beats them. Every summer, she runs to her family with the kids.. More

  • Husband's rights after divorce regarding what he spent on his wife Date: 30-5-2016

    Assallaamu alaykum. My wife was good after the marriage, but I do not know what happened to her. She became disrespectful towards me and started to say bad words against my parents. She started to accuse me of spending a portion of my monthly income on my parents, whereas I only spend on our home and on her. I even havecredit card debtsbecause of fulfilling.. More

  • Wife neglects prayer and rejects hijab Date: 5-4-2016

    Assalaamu alaykum. I need an answer, but a very right answer, and quick. I really have a very big problem. That is why it is very urgent to me. My family consists of me, my wife and my little son and daughter. Before marriage, I was not so careful about the religion. May Allaah give me increase in it. Please pray for me as well. Now, I am so much more.. More

  • Ill-mannered wife Date: 3-4-2016

    Assalaamu alaykum. I am Bangladeshi national and have been living in Canada as a refugee for almost three years. I have my wife and a child with me. We got married 16 years ago. My wife now asking for divorce from me. Everyday, she quarrels with me and bothers me. She has broken my laptop, tablet, mobile phone; has thrown my clothes and shoes, and does.. More

  • Husband not obliged to spend on recalcitrant wife Date: 15-2-2016

    Assalaamu alaykom. My wife is American and I am a Pakistani national. We got married in Saudi Arabia and live here. I am responsible for the expenses when she is living here with me. She has her business in America and has been staying there for two months in order to manage her business. I feel bad because I live here alone and long for wife. Instead.. More