Assalaamu Alaikum,
I am asking this on behalf of a revert sister. Is it acceptable to use the first name of your father as your surname instead of your full family name (for example using bint Roland instead of Kilpatrick). Kilpatrick means servant of Saint Patrick and she feels uncomfortable using it. However she doesn't want to do anything unacceptable.. More
am an egyptian muslim,met a jehovah girl in egypt and we got married after she converted to islam,after 7months she left me and she is pregnant,she return back to jehovah and to the UK,tried with her so hard about islam but she said its not in her heart.she said if i want to contact the baby after she give birth i can but she will not raise him as a.. More
assalamu aleykum, i was approached by a lady who wanted to know if the marriage of someone who is not sure whether she consented to marriage is valid or not. the story is that there is a girl who went to another country and stayed with a family. she satyed with them, and she just saw herself giving all her money to the family without knowing and later.. More
Assalamu alaikom,
I am going to visit my mother this month. I live in Egypt and she in the states. My husbands father will travel with me just to drop me off with my mother and then he will leave. Anyhow, she has suggested that we do activities like ride bicycles, horses and go for walks or running together. Of course it will be in public..
I.. More
my husband after 1 year of marriage has lost his sex drive. now he only makes love when i ask him to, even then he makes excuses and tries to delay. i have asked him to let me do other actions so i can reduce my frustration if he is not in mood for sex, but he does not let me. in my frustration i get really angry when he does not let me come near me,.. More
My parents have received a proposal for me.The guy lives in joint family system & i wont b alowed to cover my face in front of the male family members,though they have no objection in my observation of hijab outside home(they say that at home i can wear a scarf over my ordinary clothes if i like)...my mom's a little upset as this is the second time.. More
Asam wr wb. I am going through mental stress about something happened 6 years ago in my life. I stayed in one of the countries in GCC and went out of that country once for 3 days continuous without disclosing to any of my friends and colleagues. Usually, my wife gets excited seeing me returning from office everyday or after a break. She loves me a lot.. More
assalam wailaikum, i m 22yr muslim, 8months back i got into phone contact with a hindu girl. we both like each other but havent seen each other.but this is wrong. she says she wants to marry me and ready to embrase islam.i cant take decision without seen her, i told her. but if we both agree can we marry? should we tell our parents? but both our parents.. More
Is it permissible for a man to have sexual intercourse with his wife in the last ten nights of Ramadhaan? Would this decrease his reward for fasting, or does it imply that one is not applying the Sunnah? Please advise. An immediate answer would be highly appreciated. May Allaah reward you... More
Assalamo alaikom, My former husband divorced me in American Court, but he hasn't divorced me islamically. I am assuming since he wanted divorce, I am islamically divorced too. And the reason he divorced because he met a woman in the internet and he was chatting with her for one year. Then he decided that is not happy with me and he will be happy with.. More
Alsalam aalaykom,
My wife has got a 5 year old child from her previous marriage. She recently lost his custody and the child has been taken by his father in Egypt.
My wife took our baby and flew to Egypt and does not intend to come back to me before she gets back the custody (if she does get it at all!!)
She basically left a whole family for her.. More
Assalamoalaikum
I have one cousine sister and she is married two years ago and Allah has blessed her with a daughter.From last two years her inlaws are taurturing her but she has never complained about it to any of our family members.Father in law has drinking habbit, sister in law is married but still not going to her sasural just bcoz she cant stay.. More
I have been married for over 18yrs., have 4 children, 1 entering college, 2 in highschool and 1 a 6th . My husband and I have been having some difference...becuz of his harshness toward me, not considering my feelings in making major discisions which affect all of the family. I have followed my husbands will so far. Recently ..we moved with him, then.. More
Assalaamu alaikum, Thank you for taking the time, this is very important to me. I am a revert to Islam, for 4 years now. When I first became muslim and told my family they freaked. I had to run away, I met a brother in Islam through the internet and he agreed to help to me. We married islamicly so I could stay in his apartment and it be halal. But this.. More
As-salaam waleh kum i have a question in my mind pls. help me regarding i got married in 2000 i have two kids but my wife never like me at all & since 7 month she had a affair with a men who are married.they both are had intercorce so many times as well as my wife had sex with me also but since 4 month she don't allow me to do any physical now. i just.. More